Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts

3/24/08

what is happiness

Recently I just got a chance to see the Oscar winning movie:In the pursuit of happiness. My wife happened to be with me. In fact it was she who insisted on seeing this movie.
After the movie I was completely dumbstruck. What a movie!!
The movie really made me look life from a different perspective. It gave me a feeling that life is not so easy until you run for it. Life wont come to you. You need to fabricate your own life.

You need to modulate (I would rather say ) your thoughts, your desires and most important of all your aspirations. Untill you know what you want to do with your life you cannot give it a proper path.
And to give it a proper path you need to think! Now the question arises, Think What??
You need to think about different aspects of your life e.g Career, Love, Marriage etc to name a few.
If you find hurdles in finding a proper path think again. If you think you need help, Seek Help. Theres no shame in asking for help when it is a matter of you life!
Now as I mentioned above a few of them,
about your career you can get a lot of guidance. There are a lot of free as well as cost oriented counsellors in this world now, starting from your parents to profit oriented companies.
Still I would advise you to think in your mind before you take the final decision whether your mind agrees to it.
If you are not able to come to a decision still then go for the final advice you got. Then once you are in a path , you can add creativity to it. You can add medals in the process.
Why I say this is because once you start following a path you will find your decision taking ability to increase day by day.
Now comes Love-:) Does any one need a say on this??? I dont think so. Just listen to your soul.
AND marriage -interlinked with your love part might be. NO comments on that!
Now coming back to Happiness-
dictionary.com:http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Happiness
Is that all what the dictionary says. I would difer a little. I would say happiness is a state of mind when I feel above the world. When I feel a thumbsup on my life. It can be anything related-career, love, some incidents in life etc.
But again happiness wont come to you easily. Thats why the movie name Pursuit of Hapiness. You need to run for it otherwise misery will be the word in your life. So BE AWARE. Start Pursuing for it!!:-))

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